Condolence: Our condolences go out to your family. We are both so sorry for your loss. We both would love to visit with you the next time you are in the Ottawa area.

We wish you and your family all of the best,

Tom and Kim

Condolence: Our deepest sympathy in the loss your beloved Wife and Mother.
We know she will be missed. Cherish the memories.

Condolence: Dear Jim,
My deepest sympathy goes out to you and your family. In the short time I worked for you at Holy Cross, I soon realized how important your family was to you. May God be with you during this difficult time.

Condolence: All our love - we are very sorry for your loss.

Condolence: To Uncle Jim and all my cousins. I remember when we were young and visited your family for weekend BBQ's. You were always such a close family and Auntie Pat was always smiling and full of happiness. Visiting you guys has always been one of my favourite memories of my childhood. I do think about my cousins and Uncle Jim and Auntie Pat often remembering our visits to Paris/London/Branford (I think I got the city names correct). We had a lot of fun. At a get together at my Dad’s, several years ago, in Ottawa, Auntie Pat took the time to befriend my youngest son Drew. She fed him corn and he ate it all! Her gentle manor allowed him to feel a bit more comfortable in a house full of strangers. I will remember Auntie Pat as a generous, supportive lady and fascinating to talk to. Love your cousin Kim (the oldest of the Harder cousins! Yikes)

Condolence: Our thoughts are with Jim and his family.
We were shocked to here of your loss and apologize for not making it to visitation. Please know that we thought Pat was a wonderful person and feel the world has lost a great asset.
We miss all those days of the kids' hockey and meeting up with wonderful people, like Pat.
(Barb, Garnet, Ben & the other 7)

Condolence: Our thoughts are with you at the time, we are so sorry for your loss.

Condolence: Jim and family. Our deepest sympathy on the passing of your beloved Pat. She was a wonderful lady. My son Mike treasures all the talks and walks to downtown Paris that he had with Pat. He will miss her as will all who knew her.

Diana Marshall, retired secretary from Sacred Heart School and St. Gabriel School.

Condolence: Jim and Nash, and family, We were saddened to hear of Pat's passing and although we didn't get a chance to know her better(away from the ball diamonds) we will always remember her as being a very proud and loving Mom (wife). Our love and heartfelt condolences are with you, and though there are no words of comfort we can offer you, to ease your pain, please know you are in all of our thoughts and prayers.

Condolence: Jim, Brant, Jenn, Blake, Seth, Meghann,Sage and Nash
What moves through us is a silence, a quiet sadness, a longing for one more day, one more word, one more touch.
We may not understand why you left this earth so soon, or why you left before we were ready to say good-bye, but little by little, we begin to remember not just that you died, but that you lived.
And that your life gave us memories too beautiful to forget.
My friend forever
Nancy and Pat